I have been dating an older man off and on for almost two years now. He can be so wonderful and when we get along, we get along better than I ever have with anyone. But when things are bad, they’re as bad as anything I’ve ever experienced. I’m only average looking and haven’t had great luck getting guys and I think he uses that to his advantage since he’s gorgeous and has his choice of men. He is HIV positive and refuses to wear a condom with me and tells me that his viral count is too low to infect me. Stupid me listened to him many times but luckily for me, I haven’t contracted HIV. However, I have had Chlamydia twice, anal warts, and once ocular gonorrhea. He insists that he’s not sleeping with anyone else but I know that I’m not sleeping with anyone and I might not be the smartest guy ever, but I know that you don’t just get STDs out of the blue.
He recently kicked me out of his house, which was basically my house too. I want him back. But how do you tame someone like that? I need advice on how to beat him at his own game. I want him to come crawling back to me.
- Brandon, CA
I can’t explain how you should get back together with him, since you should not. This guy has treated you like a doormat and put you at risk for many dangerous infections, one of which is life-threatening. I almost thought your submittal was a joke, Brandon!
You need to get 3 things right now. Get:
Some self-esteem
Your personal things
The hell out of there.
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This article was published on Sunday 24 October, 2010.
