I have an average sized dick, but have always wanted to please my girlfriend with a really big one, maybe something like 12 inches. I watch a lot of porn and I think that I could really give it to her good if I had a big one like that. Do those penis enlargement pills work? If not, should I get a big dildo to use on her?
- Mike T., Brooklyn, NY
There is more to being a lover than having a dick. In actuality, I think men care more overall about penis size than women do. We are the ones that constantly compare and worry, worry, worry. Sure, there are some women that are size-queens and prefer something extremely large, but they're not all that common. Go into a sex shop and see how many 12" dildos they have for sale compared to average-sized ones. It's not an accident that they have more average-sized ones to choose from – that's what most women prefer.
Let's look at this simply from an anatomical viewpoint. Where are you even going to put 12 inches? Women don't just have a bottomless pit inside them. And while its ability to accommodate is incredible, the average vagina is only going to be 3-7 inches deep. You'll be left out in the cold!
You should be more than adequate with your self-proclaimed average size. Why don't you stop wasting time thinking that you're not enough for her and talk with your partner about what she likes the most, what drives her crazy, and what you two can improve on? Or go down and buy a sex book concerning something you don't know a lot about. And learn to use your best sex tools – those little things on the ends of your wrists. Simply put, your dick is pretty much a one-trick pony. Your fingers and hands can do so much that your dick can't do, no matter its size.
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This article was published on Tuesday 05 October, 2010.
