My boyfriend says if I loved him I'd swallow. I think it tastes disgusting, so forget it. I'll spit it out until the day I die.
- Jaime, Cleveland, OH
Ok, it's bullshit for your boyfriend to put you in a position where you swallowing is somehow related to your feelings for him. Dump that guy and find someone who doesn't put you in situations like that.
But in the future, let's think about this swallowing thing. I'm not trying to talk you into doing it just because I'm a male. It just makes sense to do, doesn't it? Semen is part of the whole package (pun probably intended) of being sexual with a guy.
It's just like how your secretions are part of what comes along with being a woman. How would you feel if a guy went down on you and came up, spitting out your juices and wiping his mouth like it was disgusting? I'd imagine you'd feel like part of you was rejected in some way, would you? Guys feel that way too. Well, that is, the dipshits that don't have that I-orgasmed-and-that's-all-that-matters attitude. You don't want to be with one of those guys either.
However, I am enlightened enough to know that not all sperm is created equal. I know that a guy who smokes, drinks a ton, eats 1lb of steak per day, and snacks on spinach, garlic, and asparagus probably doesn't taste all that great. In fact, he probably tastes like the bottom of a garbage disposal at a Moroccan restaurant. So if that's your situation, maybe you can compromise with him and clean up his diet and lifestyle so you're not in for such a surprise. And speaking of surprises, make sure he knows to tell you when it's going to happen. I don't know a lot of women who like that kind of blow. Another pun probably intended.
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This article was published on Saturday 16 October, 2010.