Dear Boring Bonkers,

There are many ways to ensure you have a better sex life, but the first thing you don’t want to do is put too much pressure on you and your partner. If you’re not already comfortable with sex in general, you’ll each need to do some sexual soul searching to improve your overall sexual self-esteem.

The next thing you’ll want to do to have great sex is to learn as a couple to communicate your sexual likes and dislikes. Research shows that if you and your partner can talk openly about sex your sex lives will improve.

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Best regards,