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I used to masturbate with my teddy bear. Is this normal?

Dear Sex Doc,

When I was a teenage boy I used to rub my penis on my favourite childhood teddy bear. When that got boring, I split the seams in the crotch and penetrated it. My mom found it, she must have known what I was doing with it (I think it was kind of crusty), and threw it in the trash. She never said a word about it. But, seven years later I still feel shame from that experience. Should I be so worried about this?

Stuffed Toy Stuffer

Dear Stuffed Toy Stuffer,

No, you shouldn’t feel shame or guilt about this. Pumping your favorite childhood (sex) toy is more common than you might think.

Most kids have used some sort of object to masturbate with. I’ve heard from numerous adults who had ingeneous ideas for sex toy aids when they were growing up.

One girl told me that her most beloved childhood toy was Tickle Me Elmo. She told me she was pretty well addicted to sitting on that toy. She’d watch TV, eat dinner, and fall asleep on top of her vibrating Elmo. She was thankful (and lucky) to have understanding parents and rechargeable batteries.

Stuffed Toy Stuffer, it sounds like your mother might not have been that understanding. She probably should have talked to you, but that might have been awkward for both of you.

Could you imagine her holding up your crusty Berenstain Bear telling you that masturbation is perfectly normal and natural? Maybe she just didn’t know how to talk with you about it.

Most people think that youth don’t start to masturbate until they reach puberty. However, most youth masturbate as children, and some have even been found to masturbate in the womb.

Most boys aren’t as creative as you Stuffed Toy Stuffer. The majority of young boys just pull it out and play with it. Young girls, however, get their kicks off in many different ways. Lots of girls will masturbate by straddling an armchair or climbing a rope. They’re a little sneakier about it.

Now, if you were to tell me that you’re still pumping your love into a teddy bear, I’d tell you that you have a plushie fetish. And, believe it or not Stuffed Toy Stuffer, there are adult men who are still plugging their cherished squeeze toy.

I’m not sure whether the shame you’re feeling stems from the fact that you masturbated as a teen or that you used your childhood cuddle bear as a sex toy or the fact that your mother caught you. But, be assured that what you did is not sick or perverted.

Don’t worry about what you did or how you think your mom feels about it. I’m sure she knows ‘boys will be boys.’

Best regards,

Dr. Brian Parker

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This article was published on Tuesday 20 March, 2007.

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