How can I watch my girlfriend have sex with my bestfriend?

Dear Peeping Tom,

First of all, I wouldn’t take this lightly. If you tell your girl you want to see her swap genital juices with your best bud, she might think you’re wacked.

Besides thinking you’re strange, she’ll probably assume you want an open relationship or that you’re really just into watching your buddy’s tight ass move up and down on her.

But Peeping Tom, if this fantasy is really important to you it is possible for you to bring this up with your gal. That being said, there are a few guidelines you should follow. One of the most important things is to have the discussion outside of the bedroom and not while you’re playing hide the salami.

If you have open lines of sexual communication in your relationship you could just tell your girlfriend your fantasy. Or, you could ask her, “what’s something you would like to try sexually?” Then, you could tell her your fantasy.

However, since you asked the question, I’m assuming this is not possible. In situations like this it is generally best to indirectly introduce the topic. Say something like, “Honey, I read an article last week about guys who get off watching their girlfriends have sex with another dude. How do you feel about that?”

She might tell you you’re a sick f**k, or she might jump at the opportunity to wrap her legs around your dude friend’s waist. But, have you truly considered how this will make you feel?

These types of sexual scenarios are generally fraught with insecurities and often don’t go down in history as they good as they do in your mind. Your gal friend might be very enthusiastic about riding your buddy’s pony. Do you think you can handle that?

Like I mentioned Peeping Tom, if this fantasy is so important to you that you would risk your relationship, then go ahead and tell her that you’d fancy seeing her dingle dangle your friend.

But, just like some things are better left unsaid, often, fantasies are better left as fantasies. You might just want to keep this one to yourself.

Like I mentioned Peeping Tom, if this fantasy is so important to you that you would risk your relationship, then go ahead and tell her that you’d fancy seeing her dingle dangle your friend.

But, just like some things are better left unsaid, often, fantasies are better left as fantasies. You might just want to keep this one to yourself.

Best regards,

Dr. Brian Parker