What Is The Best Way To Approach A Girl?

I'm not going to give you any cliche lines to feed a woman. They deserve more respect and imagination than that.

Men make this all too hard. I'm well aware of what it feels like to take that lonely walk across the room into a situation where you have no idea what will happen. It could go well or it could be a total disaster. Most men don't like to take that chance. But if you are at a bar to have something happen, it's just like the rest of life: you have to make it happen. I say this with all due respect to women, but men need to stop giving women so much power in these situations. Believe (and act like) you are equals and you'll fare much better.

I think the most important thing in making this work for you is intent. Just ask yourself what your intent is.

If your intent is to meet someone to get to know...if your intent is to make her smile...if your intent is to have a good time talking to her...if your intent is to see if you have chemistry...then isn't this easy? It's just having a conversation while being sincere, not smarmy. You need to remember that women are at bars to be social at some level. Maybe they didn't necessarily come to meet someone to date, but not many women are totally against having a conversation. Even if they are one of those few, who cares? Would you really want to date a girl that was going to a bar and against having even a basic conversation with someone? No. Just talk to some, feel it out, and see how it goes. They won't all be what you hoped, but that's just the nature of dating; not everyone is for you.

But if your intent is to trick her into thinking you're someone you're not and follow that trick up with getting her into bed, you're not only going to fail, but you're probably on track to being a failure.