What do guys want in the bedroom?

Dear Loving Lisa,

I know most of you gals think you know exactly what your guy wants in the sack. But, unless he’s been open enough to discuss his innermost desires you might not know what makes his dick tick.

Most women assume their men just want sex to put them into lala land. The wham-bam-thank-you-mam stereotype couldn’t be further from the truth. Believe it or not ladies, guys like foreplay just as much as you – 18 minutes to be exact.

There are a few other things us sex experts have found out about your guys from sex surveys. Guys tell us they want sex more often, want sex to be more adventurous, and want to experience new positions with their lover.

Oh ladies, there’s one more thing your guys keep asking me to tell you. They’re getting a little tired of always having to initiate the hanky panky. Now, I know some of you out there are good at getting nooki started, but studies do report that men initiate sex twice as often as you do. Your guys really want to see you take charge in the bedroom. In fact, one of the top male sexual fantasies is seeing their female partner turn into a tigress in bed.

And I know most of you girls think your guy thinks with his little head, but once again, that’s a misconception. If you really wanna turn your guy on, sex up his big head. The brain is his biggest sex organ so the more you tease, talk, and tantalize him, the more aroused he’ll be.

Getting down to basics, what you have to know about his jiggly parts is that the head of the penis is the most sensitive. More specifically, lick or flick his frenulum, the area on the underside of the penis where the shaft ‘meats’ the head. You should also know that most guys love having their testicles played with or pulled down lightly (and I mean lightly girls). Another area that is very arousing on men (and women) is the perineum (the area between the testicles and the anus). Gently stroke this area during sexual play and your guy will be putty.

These are just some of the things that guys tell us they’d love you women to do in the bedroom. Just remember, the better the sex is for him, the hotter the sex is for you.

Best regards,