What's The Best Way To Start Having More Sex?

Now that my children are older, what’s the best way to start having more sex?

It’s all about making uninterrupted time for one another. Here’s a great starting list:

Make one night a month ‘date night’. Go out no matter how tired, cranky and unromantic you may feel. At least once a year have a weekend away. Once per year, plan a one-week (yes, that would be seven days) vacation…without the kids.

Make sure to nip these common excuses in the bud:

We do not have the money. You need to ask yourself whether you can afford not to go. Think of this money as being an investment in your life’s most precious commodity: your relationship.

I’m too tired. I can appreciate how inviting your lovely couch must seem after a long week. Going out with your sweetie will be rejuvenating.

We do not have the time. There is enough information on the web on how to effectively manage your time to choke a horse. So invest some time in figuring out how to manage your time.

You really don’t feel romantic or sexy. The end result of your time together is about reconnecting and not necessarily about having a ton of sex. If sex happens, great. If not, you at least gave each other your undivided attention.

Sex Tip

A simple truth is: the happiest, best-adjusted children come from a home in which the parents love and keep an intimate connection with each other

Best regards,

Dr. Trina Read