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Where Can I Learn About Urethra Enlargement?

Recently I started to date a guy I've been interested in for a while. He was hesitant to be physical with me (anything beyond kissing) for quite some time. Once we were comfortable enough to have a conversation about it, he told me that he had recently started to purposely cut and enlarge his urethra and didn't know how I would handle it so he avoided physical contact with me. He was right - I don't know how to handle it. He told me that he wants to incorporate it into his sex life to the point where he can be entered by another man. I have to admit that I have no idea the how's and what's involved with something like that. Is there a good place to go to learn about urethra enlargement? I do care about him and am not worried about the idea other than my ignorance about it.

John, NYC

Now this is an interesting question. Urethral modification to the point where he can be penetrated? Holy shit, John! That’s a very honest conversation you two had. Thanks for sharing.

The process your partner is referring to - the cutting or tearing done to enlarge the urethra - is called meatotomy. It often evolves from masturbation habits that involve instruments inserted into the urethra. Often times people use bigger and bigger instruments to tear the tissue, while others cut the urethra and keep something inserted inside themselves to keep the sides from healing back together.

One activity that he may enjoy well before he’s ready to be penetrated – that will take a long, long time to get to that point – is called sounding. Sounding is actually an old medical term for using a metal rod to find and dilate parts of the body. In this case, you’d be sounding his urethra. The most common sound used is called a Van Buren which is curved at one end and is about a quarter inch in diameter at the other.

He might also want to eventually try sounding with quarter inch steel balls. These are counted, inserted into the urethra, and left there during masturbation. Once he comes, the balls are shot out – sometimes into a glass container for dramatic effect – and of course counted again to make sure there are none left in the urethra.

You have to keep in mind that this isn’t the safest of all sexual practices. He’s basically performing small surgeries on himself. Take it s-l-o-w and if you notice any signs of damage to the urethra such as blood, brown or orange urine, or pus, he’ll need to see a doctor immediately.

Beyond this, BMEzine.com is probably a better resource for you than this site as far as personal stories, experiences, and even pictures. They are a very helpful, informative community but not for the squeamish.

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