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Will my girlfriend's vibrator replace me?

Dear Sex Doc,

My girlfriend just bought a vibrator and I’m a little worried she won’t need me any more. I know my dick doesn’t move that way. Is it over for me? I’m I going to get dumped?

Nervous About New Toy

Dear Nervous About New Toy,

So your penis doesn’t vibrate, rotate, and flick her clit at 20 beats per second? Well, you might have a problem competing with something that does, right? Absolutely not.

Nervous About New Toy, this is a very common question I get from men. They are concerned that they cannot compete with this electronic clit blaster.

They feel that the new battery operated buzz toy is a relationship ticking time bomb. Why would any woman need the stress of being in a relationship if she could get herself off so easily with her new, shiny friend?

Though many women love the sensations brought on by sex toys such as vibrators, they definitely do not replace a partner. A vibe, dill, or plug is not capable of giving a woman the emotional connection that a real live human being can. Toys are also not able to give women intimacy, something most intimately crave.

Further, toys are simple that, toys. They are meant for fun and to enhance sexuality, whether the individual is in a relationship or not.

So NANT, you really shouldn’t be concerned that her new ‘best friend’ is going to replace you. Learn to embrace her new toy and incorporate it into your sexual relationship with your girlfriend. You’ll probably see it will bring a lot more excitement to your bedroom activity. And, once you see what it can do for your sex life you might be adding more toys to her tickle trunk.

Best regards,

Dr. Brian Parker

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This article was published on Saturday 23 December, 2006.

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