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How I Will onvince My Partner That I Want Oral Sex Before Interc
Dear Dr. Trina,
I would bet that he either doesn’t feel very confident in his oral sex ability or he had a bad experience that turned him off giving oral sex. You need to have a conversation with him—outside the bedroom—to discover if it is either. Find out if he was given negative feedback by a past partner. Or if he is turned off by the smell, taste or the bushel of hair. When you hear his concerns, don’t judge and don’t get upset. Then tell him gently that oral sex is something very important to your sexual enjoyment. Together figure out how you can work around what he has told you. Next you need to show him what you like and make sure that teaching him is a fun experience. When things start heating up in the bedroom, show and tell him what you want. Remember: men need specific, succinct and direct language in order to understand what you’re saying.
This article was published on Saturday 06 November, 2010. |
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