My boyfriend is about to get the boot. We've been together for months now but he hasn't made me orgasm once. NOT ONCE! Any tips so I can solve this problem? I don't really want to hurt his ego.
- Christine C., TX
Yeah, I'll give you a tip. Stop acting like your sexual responses are the sole responsibility of your boyfriend. What is it that makes you think that it's his job to "make you" orgasm? Guys don't come in two forms: those who magically produce orgasms and those who don't.
I have heard women discuss this sort of thing before, as if it is the sole indicator as to whether or not they are with a good lover.
Sure, an attentive lover will ask you what you like, what works for you, etc. But on your end, being a good lover includes mentioning those same things.
How about a little communication with him about what he needs to do with you so that you orgasm? How about a little help from yourself? How about a little help from a toy? How about a combination of all of them? I just don't get how you think it's solely his duty. As a couple, it's the responsibility of the two of you.
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This article was published on Saturday 16 October, 2010.
