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How Will I Break Up With The Girl I Loved?
I love my girlfriend very much, but I know that she isn't the one for me. My trouble is that I can't figure out how to tell her that I think we should go our separate ways. How?
- Will C., Billings, MT For as many relationships begin, nearly that same number end. So, breaking up is a very important thing to know how to do correctly. Of course, each situation is somewhat unique, but there are some basic tactics to stick to. You may know that you don't want to be in the relationship, but you'd better be able to explain why that is the case. They'll almost certainly ask and you need to be specific while being tactful. Sit them down - in person - and let them know that you have decided you want to end the relationship. Getting those words out are the hardest, but once you do, it's easier from there. Through all the subsequent questions, arguing, anger, and bargaining, you'll have to maintain your position. It's very tempting to believe someone you care a great deal about when they say that they'll change or to change your mind when you see them crying. Allot yourself a certain time to get through this talk and try to stick to it. Oftentimes, it goes on for much longer than it needs to and it becomes almost an awkward ending. It'll take some time, depending on how long you have been together, but don't draw it out into an excruciatingly long matter.
Good luck! This article was published on Saturday 16 October, 2010. |
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